THE IMPORTANCE AND BENEFITS OF KISSING AND HOW TO KISS
First
let’s start with the importance of kissing…
When
a person hears the word “Kissing”
instantly, the mind imagines two people in love licking tongue and lips. But
there’s more to kissing than just tongue and lips sucking or licking. Like you
know, kissing can be done between a mother and a child; a light kiss on the cheek
or the forehead. This could mean “I love you or you’re dear to me or us) Kissing
is not done only between two people in love. A father could kiss his son on the
forehead… This could perhaps mean “I love you son, or I’m proud of you”. A
daughter in-law could kiss her mother in-law on the cheek very lightly. and it could signify “I love you, I’m honored
having you as a mother –in-law, or can as well be a sign of acceptance. I
accept you being my mother in-law.
A
kiss can be done between two friends on the cheek, it could be a sign of
greeting, or perhaps another way of saying, “long time no see!” that could as
well end up with a light hug.
Kissing
is not only for people in love, a light cheek kiss can be done between two business associates, a client and a business partner, and between colleagues. But deep kissing is done between people in love.
So, what
is the importance of kissing?
IMPORTANCE OF KISSING
· It increases personal Hygiene: because kissing
requires you to be close enough to the one you wish to kiss. Hence, you
wouldn’t want to kiss someone with a bad breath, smelling mouth etc. Hence, it
helps you to be conscious of your personal hygiene. E.g. brushing regularly.
· It shows how a person feels about you for
instance, a person, who is upset with you, won’t be able to kiss you. So, it
helps you to quickly know who is upset with you. Therefore, enabling you to
resolve the issue quickly and maintain peace with everyone.
BENEFITS OF KISSING
· Kissing brings people close
· It creates a bond
· It brings feelings between the two involved.
· Hot romances usually start with a kiss… Hence, if
you want a hot romance from your spouse, start it with a … Lol!
· It leaves lasting smiles on our faces and in our
heart as we go about our day
· It leaves good memory of us in the hearts and
minds of those we love, all throughout the day.
· It keeps our loved ones happy about us and with
life
· It takes tension away
· It makes you miss the one you love
· When done between two people in love, it relaxes
the nerves
· It’s a way of saying “I love you”.
· It promotes peace and harmony.
· It makes the ones we love think about us more
often during the day.
· It helps us to express untold feelings we have.
· A kiss between a mother and a child for instance a
kiss on the check or forehead could mean I love you or you’re dear to me. Such
kisses usually end with a hug.
· A Kiss from a child to a parent means I love you
mum/dad. (It helps us to express ourselves)
The
best way to have a wonderful day is to start your day with a kiss. For
instance, for couples, even if you forgot to give a kiss and you’re already at
the door about going out, kindly go back and give your spouse a kiss even if
he/she is still sleeping. It will leave a long lasting smile on their faces for
the whole day, and will keep them happy about you, and with life (That is what
I call the miracle of a kiss).
Kissing
is biblical, so don’t feel odd about it.
Below
are some scriptures that talks about kissing.
Song of Solomon 1:2
Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth!
For your love is better than wine;
Psalm 85:10
Steadfast love and faithfulness meet;
righteousness and peace kiss each other.
Romans 16:16
Greet one another with a holy kiss. All
the churches of Christ greet you.
Kissing
can be done between parents, parents and children, couples, those dating, and
between friends. It creates an usual bond because it is difficult to kiss
someone you’re upset with. So, it helps you to know who’s upset with you, and
who’s not.
Kissing should be done to enhance oneness, not to
encourage or promote sin most especially among two unmarried people. For
unmarried couples, any kind of kissing can be done except direct lip to lip
kissing … Lol! In order to avoid it leading you in a direction you wouldn’t
want. Not kissing won’t kill you, but if
you’re doing it, do it with the fear of the Lord.
HOW TO KISS
Spouses
· Slant nose while kissing to avoid bumping into
each other’s nose.
· Take it slowly to leave lasting memories.
· Do it with joy and a charming smile on your
face.
· Kiss her in the rain… Start by biting her lower
lip softly
· Kiss her on the neck and make her forget her
name.
· Look at each other in the eye, smile as you both
steal kisses periodically from each other without the other person expecting
it. Lol!
· Hold her lightly at the back of her head, and
kiss her like she’s your favourite fruit.
· Kiss her on her neck, beginning from the back of
her ear.
· Try to whisper “I love you” in her ear, and end
the statement with a kiss just below her ear; on her neck.
· Be kind as you kiss her, and be playful.
· Steal kisses as you both sit to watch movies
· Kiss playfully
· Kiss her differently each time. Make the kissing
menu rich so she would always want more.
Relatives/Friends
· Kiss with a smile on your face, it makes the one
been kissed feel loved.
· Look at their faces with a bright lively smile
before kissing them.
· Don’t forget to say nice words to them at the
end of each kiss. (Like you’re the best son, daughter, sister-in-law in the
whole world).
But…
Life isn’t about kissing and making other people feel awesome around you. The
most important thing in life is seeking God. When you seek God, He will restore
your broken marriage, He will change your children, and make them of good
character, He will help you, and grant the desires of your heart. He will do
much more… Just say after me -Lord Jesus, I'm a sinner, forgive my sin. Cleanse
me now with your precious blood. Come into my heart. I accept you now as my
Lord and personal saviour. Write my name in the book of life. I am born again.
Old things are passed away, behold, all things have become new in Jesus name.
Amen!
God bless you
SANDRA
IKIRIKO
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