HOW BIG OR SMALL SHOULD A SEXUAL ORGAN BE BEFORE IT COULD BE SATISFYING

First, there’s no such thing as big or small SEXUAL organ. Although in reality there are actually big sizes of sexual organs, but in the actual sense, what we call big or small, it’s just an illusion of the mind.

The first thing is

Leviticus 21:13

And he shall take a wife in her virginity.

God’s original plan or rather what God expects of us was for us to marry as  virgins, but due to our different backgrounds, and mostly upbringings, couple with our modern society, plus peer pressure, it made it really difficult for most people to keep up to God’s standard or raise their kids to God’s expectation. But if you’re a parent reading this do not forget what the bible says

Proverbs 22:6

Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it.

This is very true, this is why as parent(s), we are expected to raise our kids in a godly manner whether or not we were able to live to that expectation ourselves. So when these kids are grown, it will be impossible to influence them negatively and fill their minds with the lies of the devil or negative societal demands.

Now back to the topic of the day. “HOW BIG OR HOW SMALL SHOULD A SEXUAL ORGAN BE BEFORE IT COULD BE

SATISFYING?” Hmm! What a heading. Now if we had married as virgins, there won’t be any room or need for comparisons. That is because the only sexual organ we would have been acquainted with would be that of our spouse, and if our society had allowed us or given us the room to remain faithful to one partner, therefore, reducing or totally erasing any possibility of divorce, and if our social medias and the media in general hasn’t been filled with naked pictures of the opposite sex, we wouldn’t have had the room to start comparing and contrasting with our partner’s sexual organ.

Now back to the topic of the day…. Before you read any further, remember that God does not make mistakes, and has not made any mistake yet. It is our sins and imperfect life style that makes us see God to be making mistakes in the sizes of some individual's sexual organs.  If you had married as a virgin, the only sexual organ you would have been acquainted with, would have been that of your spouse, and that would have fitted perfectly into yours as a lady because you’re a virgin, and that also would have been ok for you Mr. because you’re a virgin. But  what makes each individual see another person’s sexual organ as being too small or being imperfect is as a result of testing/trying too many. 

 Hence, the individual before criticizing or condemning a given sexual organ has a lot already in their mind that they’re making comparisons with. And it ought not to be so. The one whose sexual organ you’re calling small isn’t the reason you’re wild, and for your information, his sexual organ isn’t small. You’ve just been too loosed not to realize that anymore.

To the man, who is looking for a perfect body? Please listen and kindly get this straight, God didn’t create the woman to be a “toy” if you need a big toy, you know exactly where to buy one. This is the kind of woman, God created…  A Wife of Noble Character

Proverbs 31:10-31

A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies. Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value.

She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life.

She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands.

She is like the merchant ships, bringing her food from afar.

She gets up while it is still night; she provides food for her family and portions for her female servants.

She considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings she plants a vineyard.

She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks.

She sees that her trading is profitable, and her lamp does not go out at night.

In her hand she holds the distaff and grasps the spindle with her fingers.

She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy.

When it snows, she has no fear for her household; for all of them are clothed in scarlet.

She makes coverings for her bed; she is clothed in fine linen and purple.

Her husband is respected at the city gate, where he takes his seat among the elders of the land.

She makes linen garments and sells them, and supplies the merchants with sashes.

She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come.

She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.

She is watching the ways of her household, And bread of sloth she eateth not.

Her children rise up and call her blessed. Her husband also praises her:  "Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all."

Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.

Honor her for all that her hands have done, and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.

God made you a wife, not a “doll” because our so call “society” has corrupted and changed the heart and the mind of most men from God’s own definition of a perfect woman, to the societal definition of what a perfect woman should be like. Hence, after having the “doll” you

call “a perfect woman” deep down within that man, he is not yet satisfied. He doesn’t know what he’s looking for outside, but he knows he isn’t satisfied. If you ask him, he can’t explain what exactly it is that he wants, but he knows his heart and soul is searching for a woman of his dream. That is because in you as a man, lies the Spirit of the Lord. Your soul yarns for God’s definition of a true woman, because you don’t know it, couple with societal demand of what a perfect woman should be like. Hence, you look for all those godly qualities in your “doll” of a wife. Tell me, how can it be? Virtuous women are not toys. They have the fear of the Lord, they are beautiful, nice body structures and all of that, but they’re not like your normal toys. They are women, young ladies, and elderly. They come in different forms, shapes and sizes, but they’re not toys. They’re far from being toys. And the differences between God’s kind of a woman and your

conventional toy is that… when you marry God’s kind of a woman, you’ll have peace in your home, she’ll be contend with the size you’ve got whether you tag it #Big, #Medium or #Small, your joy shall be her

joy, and in her dictionary, there’s no divorce because she’ll love you too much to leave you. You’ll raise godly kids and have peace in your

home. Above all, you’ll grow old together, and never you grow tired of loving each other or seeing each other’s face.  Hence, the conclusion or the summary of this piece I choose to write about is, there’s no big sexual organ or a small one. Every sexual organ size is perfect just as God has made it, but your wildness in that business, makes you now think that some are big while others are small. Now irrespective of what you think or say about another person’s body, it doesn’t make what you’re saying true because you’re not the creator. Hence, slow down, have a rethink and learn to appreciate your spouse’s body just as it, knowing that you seeing it as an imperfect body is just an illusion from your own mind which isn’t true. Learn to appreciate people’s body just as it is, and stop seeing other people’s body or your own body as imperfect because it is just another lie from the devil. Your body is perfect just as God made it. You can do some exercises to keep fit, but you’re a very beautiful woman, and a handsome man just as God made you.

Lastly, remember it is not the size that brings sexual satisfaction. It is your love for each other that brings satisfaction and makes you two enjoy every bit of the time you spend together. Never forget that.

But how can you be able to appreciate your own body, and be satisfied with the size of sexual organ that God has given to you without the help of God. You need the help of God in order to stop comparing yours or that of your spouse with those of others. You need God’s help in order to love your spouse or yourself and stop thinking that God made a mistake giving you what you’ve got. Hence, if you need that help of God in your life, relationship or marriage kindly say after me - Lord Jesus, I'm a sinner, forgive my sin. Cleanse me now with your precious blood. Come into my heart. I accept you as my Lord and personal saviour. Write my name in the book of life. I am born again. Old things are passed away, behold, all things have become new in Jesus name.

Amen!

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Sandra Ikiriko