THE IMPORTANCE OF SEX IN A RELATIONSHIP

“Marriage is honourable when the bed is undefiled” that’s what the bible says, but what do you say?

As children of God, our opinion counts, and whoever you are, your opinion counts as well, but that is only when it is in line with God’s word concerning your life. 

Yes! So, it says, “marriage is honourable when the bed is undefiled.”

Most times as humans, we may feel like doing something right, but our emotions won’t let us, couple with ignorance of not knowing the huge befit that awaits us if we obey.

Ya! So, now the importance of SEX in a relationship  … Why are you popping your eyes open in surprise? Lol! God loves you, and I love you too. Hence, let’s talk about sex today. Lol!

THE IMPORTANCE OF SEX

·       It brings closeness between the couple.

·       It helps them to forgive

·       A  good sex can actually take their minds off from cheating

·       It makes them to be open to each other as couple tend to talk after sex

·       It creates a strong bond

·       It makes them miss each other when they’re apart

·       It makes them look alike as years go by

·       It helps them to end quarrel faster etc

Marriage like I said before is honourable only when the bed is undefiled, and sex can be enjoyable, relaxing, memorable, sweet, crazy, hot, and even unthinkable most especially when the two parties love themselves deeply.

The question for most teenagers would then be at what point should we start having sex? Now if you ask me, I would say now. Yes now, but only on one condition… if he can make you his wife now. That is, gather your families, seek consent from your parents and get God’s approval, and blessing from your Pastor, and of course a certificate to show that you two are legally married. Now, obviously that can’t take one day to achieve, perhaps it’s even possible, I don’t know, but my point is why rush into what would last a life time?  The reason we have too many broken marriages, is due to hurried marriages. When you rush into anything, you are bound to rush out of it, if care is not taken, reason being that you did not take time to know what’s inside where you are entering before rushing into it.

I believe everything is achievable, and marrying now is also possible if you can have your parents’ consent and blessing from your pastor and a certificate to prove you’re now married. I wonder why young people of now days hurry into everything. We no longer have patience to think, pray, seek God’s face and most importantly plan for our future together with this new partner of ours. We hurry into everything and hurry out of it.

Most young people don’t have patience; they hurry into early sex life, therefore having kids they didn’t plan for. We hurry into everything therefore having things we did not plan having including inheriting diseases we did not image we could inherit. Sometimes, even very healthy looking people are terribly ill. Be careful young people.  Yes sex is good, very good, and can be enjoyed only when it is done in wedlock.

No guy or girl should use that as an audition before you can have a healthy relationship with him or her. There are lots of people everywhere who have decided to keep themselves until they’re married, and they’re having a healthy relationship without sex. 

My darling, don’t let anyone deceive you, any love that needs sex to prove, isn’t love. If he or she demands sex from you, in order for you to prove your love or commitment to them, refuse it. Ask yourself, would you have given your head if it is what it requires? Doesn’t he or she want you alive? Don’t you know that the wages of sin is death? When you start sinning against God anyhow you please, the Almighty can’t protect you anymore. Hence, in the face of challenge or danger, you become the victim if care isn’t taken. But God would go all out to protect you if you live a clean life today to please Him.

I was told prior to this time, that no man would love and date me if I don’t do sex. I never believed it because I knew it was a sin against God. Premarital sex is a punishable offense before God. I never believed it that no man would date me because I will not give myself so cheaply, and because I was determined to please God at any cost. I began meeting decent young men, who have the fear of the Lord, who have also pledged their bodies to God, to live a clean life until they’re married. And guess what a relationship that would be like. No evil will dare come close to you two. When you pray, mountains will move.

Hence, sex in relationship is good as it binds the two together, and makes them love each other, but only when you’re a husband and wife together.

Don’t forget this… A woman who cannot be faithful in a relationship will not be faithful in marriage, and a man who cannot be faithful to you because you don’t do sex, will not be faithful in marriage. So, how would you know someone who will not cheat on you in marriage? It is by doing a no sex relationship with that person before marriage. If he/she can endure in relationship, he/she can equally endure in marriage and won’t cheat on you when you’re out of town.

Now by strength shall no man prevail. Hence, if you need the help of God in order to keep yourself till you’re married kindly say after me -Lord Jesus, I'm a sinner, forgive my sin. Cleanse me now with your precious blood. Come into my heart. I accept you now as my Lord and personal saviour. Write my name in the book of life. I am born again. Old things are passed away, behold, all things have become new in Jesus name.

Amen!

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God bless you

SANDRA IKIRIKO