DON'T BE DESPERATE FOR MARRIAGE

It baffles me the way young people these days put themselves under pressure and  desperation because they want to get married and this makes them to do all sort of mind-blowing things that they shouldn’t do that end them up not getting married or when they do, they experience hell while they are still on earth and don’t last in it.

The truth is that marriage is not what you rush into because when you rush in and not take your time to do things you ought to do, you will eventually rush out with the same speed you use to rush in. So, why rushing and wanting to run out of singleness as if singleness is a curse or evil, it is not and you shouldn’t put yourself under pressure to move out of it.

 

Singleness does not limit you; in fact for one to be qualified to get married and have heaven in your marriage you must be single. There is no successful or happy marriage, you will work it out, but wisdom for that is drawn from singlehood.

  

What does it mean to be single? It means being UNIQUE, SEPARATED and WHOLE. So, until you are single you can’t mingle well. It is better to be single hoping and knowing you will get married than to be married and wishing to be single. Singleness means you must first have to be unique, separated and whole so you won’t depend so much on any for happiness and your joy will always be complete.

  

You should be complete to be able to fulfil the purpose of relationship which is give and take. In marriage you can’t give what you don’t have.

Singleness is not a curse, it is a training platform and good push into a good marriage.

 

Marriage is not your destiny, it is one means to your destiny, you are not created for marriage, but marriage is created for you. Nobody will send you out from heaven because you are single, but you can go straight to hell if you marry the wrong person because you will grumble your way through, no grumbling person will see heaven not to talk of God (matt5:8).

 

Don’t be desperate; I have never seen anyone that made right decision out of desperation and under pressure. Desperation will always end you up in marrying a wrong husband, and marrying the wrong person can reduce the quality of your life by 60%.Lets be careful every relationship problem is a heart problem.

 

Marriage is meant to be enjoyed and not to be endured; don’t get yourself to where you will endure. The easiest way to be and experience hell while you are on earth is being in wrong union. My friend be where you will enjoy yourself and still make it to heaven. Actually marriage is a means to making heaven if you follow its due principle. So is not bad you experience the heaven now and later you go there. You deserve the best cause you are the best. Selah

 

 

Edited by Sandra Ikiriko

Hillz Okpala