LET HIM TAKE THE LEAD


One thing no woman wants is to be seen as being desperate

 

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t does not matter how much you love a man, stalking him is never a good idea. He loves you that was why he came to you for a relationship. Hence, allow him take the lead.

 

There are times when a woman is deeply in love, with time she will begin to lose control of herself, and soon will begin to put pressure on the man to engage her, and may force him to do things which will lead to marriage when the man is not yet ready for it. In turn that will make the man to see her as being desperate and may also lose the respect  he has for her.

He loves you, that was why he came to you. Please do not be the one to start chasing after him. Allow him take the lead. If he has the fear of the Lord, then be rest assured he will not lead you astray, but never be the one to chase after him. The gentle man may not complain because he may not want you to feel embarrass, but he may use it against you someday.

 

A proper lady will always allow her man take the lead. Allow him to propose to you when he feels it is right to do so. Do not force him to propose to you else he may see you as being desperate. Allow him make a request to see your parents when he wants to. Please never force him to do anything against his will else he may no longer have respect for you.

 

When a gentle man comes to you for a relationship,  do well to allow nature take its full course by allowing the man to take the lead in the relationship. Never do anything which will make you appear as being desperate. Remember;  no man will want to marry a woman who appears to be desperate. So, learn to control your emotions so it will not lead you astray.

May God give you understanding to better understand what I am saying in Jesus name - amen
 
Sandra Ikiriko
 

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