SHE IS BEAUTIFUL

 

 

 

Sometimes people tend to be unkind to their partners due to their bad experiences in life.

 

It was Christmas eve, and Morin was really excited that it was going to be another beautiful Christmas. Her aunt sent her on an errand, and she went with gladness of heart.

 

The man in the dark saw her; she was the most beautiful girl he had ever seen. The environment was quiet, and there was no one around. So, he pointed a gun at her, and raped her.

She had no one to complain to, she was just an orphan.

This is just a little bit of the story of the girl I call Morin.

 

But Morin grew up to be the beautiful person writing this article.

 

It does not matter what you have gone through in life, the truth remains that life is beautiful. Do not use the crime of another person to punish an innocent person.

 

For example, if you’re a female, and you have been raped or sexually harassed, that should not make you see all men as wicked or heartless. That should not make you treat men badly because there are lots of nice men out there.

 

Irrespective of your bad experiences, you must leave the past where it belong, and move on with your life.

If you’re a male, and when growing up you never got the kind of love and support you needed from those you loved, and you managed to train yourself through school, and so, you feel nobody deserves anything good from you because you suffered to get them. Well, I think the sooner you forget your past and move on with life, the better it will be for you. You cannot really go far in life if you keep carrying the burden of your past with you. With time the burden will become too heavy for you to carry, and by then it will either make you sick or it might make you slow.

 

If you have been raped before, do not think it is the end of the world.

 

I want you to know that irrespective of what you’ve been through in life, there is somebody, somewhere, who has been through worse things and is still living happily

 

Learn to forget your past, and move on. I know it may not be easy for you, but you have to try.

 

Suicide is never a better option. You’re beautiful, unique, and very intelligent. Nobody has told you because you have not allowed anyone to be close enough to tell you. The reason you have to move on with your life is because somebody needs you to be alive and use your story to encourage and inspire them.

 

Also note that the devil does not attack people who don't have great destiny. The devil attacks people who have greatness. Therefore, the reason you went through all you’ve been through is because you have greatness deposited in you.

 

So, please learn to forget your bitter past and move on with your life.

Some people have taken a decision base on their past experiences not to love again. But you have to let go of your past, and forgive whoever it was that caused you that pain, and also forgive yourself and allow God to heal your broken heart. Also you must learn to see people as unique. That one person treated you badly doesn’t mean the next person you meet will treat you the same way.

 

Walk in love and be happy. Don’t allow the burden of the past weigh you down. Always remember to keep the past where it belong.

 

God bless you
 

Sandra Ikiriko